Way to Unlock the Internet Dating’s Secrets

on Tuesday, March 31, 2009

If you’re going to succeed at online dating, you have to recognize that it’s different from traditional dating. So, what’s the secret to Internet
dating? In order to succeed, remember to use the Internet as a way to gain insight into the available and appropriate singles. Remember
that a dating site is much more than a directory of available singles; it’s a means to get into the prospect’s character and personality by
virtue of an ongoing exchange that takes place before you meet! And that’s why Internet dating is traditional dating turned on its head.
When you finally do meet your prospect in person, you aren’t strangers. The date is with someone who is a suitable match with
respect to age, values, and future goals. The date feels like a reunion and proceeds at a much more advanced level.

Therefore, to succeed at Internet dating, you must

  • Have a good sense of who you are
  • Have a good sense of what you’re looking for in a date/mate
  • Have a reliable way to get online, surf the Web, send and receive e-mail, and maybe even take part in online chats
  • Read the prospects’ profiles carefully (for example, looking past the photos) and try to find nuggets of information about the prospects that make them suitable
  • Engage in e-mail exchanges with prospects to ferret out additional information that can tell you if your prospects are a reasonable match
  • If you discover you’re not a match, you can disengage quickly, and move on with minimal discomfort.

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